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Friday, July 4, 2008

Friday Five-July 4th Edition



Sally a "Brit" gives us this FF":

1. Barbeque's or picnics ( or are they essentially the same thing?)
There is a difference, Sally! A picnic is what you take to hear the symphony in Central Park. A BBQ is what I'm going to at my friend's Sally! and Irene in New Jersey-they have a pool, but rain is predicted ;-(  A BBQ also involves outdoor fire and usually meat grilling.

2. The park/ the lake/ the beach or staying at home simply being?
Could be any one as July 4th lands anytime of the week and is usually very quiet in NYC. We usually stay home then go to the rood-18th floor at night and watch Macy's fireworks.

3. Fireworks- love 'em or hate 'em?
Love em. Used to make a big deal of watching as a child. Sitting in the back yard for what seemed like forever till they finally started. It was magical.

4. Parades- have you ever taken part- share a memory...
I was in my High School Marching Band, so I must have been in a parade or two, but I just can't remember. So much marching....

5. Time for a musical interlude- if you could sum up holidays in a piece of music what would it be?
I remember sitting at a "picnic" in Central Park"listening to, I think, the 1812 Overture with cymbals crashing and drums banging and the fireworks so close that the crumbs were  falling on us and our blankets, it was wonderful. See above.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

In case you haven't heard, St Louis Nun Ousted from Position


From NCR
Community supports ousted St. Louis nun
By Tom Fox NCR Staff
"Sister of Charity Louise Lears, forced out of all church ministerial roles by Saint Louis Archbishop Raymond Burke, is described by friends and colleagues in near saintly terms.

They call her a bright, energetic, compassionate and faith-filled woman. They see her as a creative, generous and selfless person, a highly effective parish minister. They say she is first rate teacher and preacher. They view her as a person guided by the gospels including an unwavering commitment to justice and the local poor.

These seemingly universal accolades, however, were not enough to save Lears from a severe interdict by Burke who banished her from all Saint Louis church ministries last week.

He also banned her from receiving any of the Sacraments in the archdiocese.

It was her belief that all church ministries, including women’s ordination, should be open to women. Curiously, this seems to have been only one of many of her passions and, perhaps, not her central passion, which seems to have been parish work.

Lears was shocked twice last week. First, she learned that Burke had judged her guilty of three grave canonical offenses against faith and church teachings; then, the next day, she learned that her accuser and judge he had been elevated to a new Vatican post, prefect of the church’s highest canonical court in Rome.

She was out; then so was he, at least from Saint Louis.

Lears, 58, for the past three years has been a member of the pastoral team at Saint Cronan’s parish in South St. Louis, and a coordinator of religious education in the archdiocese.

Lears is not speaking to the media, but issued as statement saying she was “deeply saddened” by the judgment.

“I love the church. I would never give scandal to the People of God. As a faith-filled woman, I root my life and ministry in scripture, Eucharist, and Jesus’ gospel message of nonviolence and justice. As a Sister of Charity, I vow my life to God with whom I walk in humility, simplicity, and charity.”
While Lears’ primary identification is that of a member of the Saint Cronan pastoral team, she is or has recently been a member of a number of other organizations. She is past president of the board of the Center for Survivors of Torture and War Trauma in St. Louis, a board and finance committee member for the Family Care Health Centers in St. Louis, a member of Winter Outreach to Homeless there, also a member of the W’EARTH Housing Coalition, a coalition led by low-wealth women in the Forest Park Southeast neighborhood in St. Louis.

She is also an adjunct faculty member in the Department of Theological Studies at Saint Louis University specializing in medical ethics and spirituality nonviolence.

Mark Chmiel, also an adjunct professor in the department, had this to say about his colleague:

“Sister Louise Lears has made availability and accompaniment a way of life. I have seen how much thoughtful attention and encouragement she gives to her students at Saint Louis University in her popular course, Spirituality of Nonviolence. Several times our community in Saint Louis traveled to the annual School of Americas vigil in mid-November, and I was always touched by Louise's calm and compassionate presence over those long weekends.

She also participated in our direct-action efforts to raise awareness and provoke responsible action about the U.S. government use of torture in Iraq and at Guantanamo. In such wise, wherever she is, she continually nurtures a community of conscience as naturally as she breathes.”

NCR contacted a number of her other colleagues who spoke with a mixture of outrage and mourning, anger at what they called the injustice of the action taken against Lears and sadness as they pondered the loss of her talents to the archdiocese.

Sister of Saint Joseph of Carondelet Jean Abbott recalled the time Lears arrived to help her set up a center to receive victims of torture coming from Guatemala. Abbott had found an old tavern, but it was Lears who imagined how it could be transformed into a vibrant center and set the wheels in motion. “I had very little money,” Abbott said. “Louise had an eye for organization. She brought the place to life.”

“She has a keen sense of justice,” Abbott said.

The Saint Cronan parish council last week seemed equally vexed and saddened. The council issued a statement criticizing Burke’s action while defending Lears' pastoral work “wholeheartedly.” “(We have) been edified by her depth of caring for the people of this parish, our children, the children of our neighbors, and the men and women who call the Forest Park Southeast neighborhood of St. Louis home.”

The statement added that Lears “has been a model of compassion and of non-violent resolution of conflict. She has encouraged us to live more fully the Gospel of Jesus. It saddens us deeply that she has been singled-out for prosecution in a church court.”

Echoing these expressions, Abbott said, “I feel tremendous compassion for Louise and I’m extremely sad for the church.”

Jerry King, a member of the parish and member of the Center for Theology and Social Analysis in Saint Louis, an organization he and Lears belong to, found irony in the Burke censure. “Louise was not spoiling for a fight; she really did not want a fight; she wanted resolution.” He said she just wanted to be a pastor – “and has been very good at it, very active in her commitments” to the parish, which he described as a “last stop” for people disaffected from the church.

King and others now worry the disaffected are now going to drop out altogether.
Ellen Rehg, another member of the parish, disagrees. She called Lears a “nonviolent saint” adding, “I don’t say that lightly.”

“She will continue to live nonviolently, maintaining her integrity. You know I’ve hardly ever heard of canon law until recently. She’s going to make it. So will we. She’s taught us to trust in the gospels.”

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Summer Goes so Fast


When it's summer, I forget that I'm not a kid again. Gay Pride is the last Sunday of June, then 4th of July, then suddenly my birthday-July 25th (a harbinger of the end of summer when I was a kid) then suddenly I have to go back to school! Of course I don't have to go back to school. I'm a grown up-at least in body. But I still have these feelings about summer. I should be happy about a speedy summer. I complain about it. It is kind of nasty, but still there is a feeling of festival in NY and I love the long daylight, though I find myself coming home from work and not going out again because I'm still very fatigued from surgery I had last winter. I'm told this is not unusual.
So, summer, why are you speeding, when your cold brother limps along?

Sunday, June 29, 2008

It's Finally LGBT Day, The day of the Parade




DYKE MARCH

(Pictures aren't mine, but taken from flikr)

The night before the official Parade, there's the Dyke March, really more of a demonstration, unlicensed, from Bryant Park-at 42nd St behind the main library-to Washington Square Park-in the Village. Last night we watched and waited at a juice bar at 22nd St-as I can't walk that far- as the sky's opened and the deluge began, stopped and began again. We finally got a phone call from friend and co-worker Mo who said they were stuck?! at 34th St. This quick walk took from 5:00 till almost 7:00PM, when we welcomed our really drenched friends. We walked the rest of the way with them, which was fun, then milled around Washington square park for awhile and went to dinner at a Moroccan Restaurant.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Who's Kirbyjon Caldwell?


I was recently asked to sign a petition in support of Barak Obama put together by Kirbyjon Caldwell. Who? So I looked around the web and this is what I found.

"Metanoia Ministry
We are pleased to announce the creation of " The Way, The Truth and The Life", a program created to provide Christ Centered instruction for those seeking freedom from homosexuality, lesbianism, prostitution, sex addiction and other habitual sins".


Apparently, Kirbyjon Caldwell who was spiritual adviser to George W. Bush and is the pastor of Houston’s Windsor Village United Methodist Church, and senior pastor of “ex-gay” brainwashing program Metanoia Ministries has announced his endorsement for Barack Obama, and says he plans to campaign for Obama, apparently with the blessings of the Obama campaign: “I have been in contact with the Obama campaign team,” he said. “I will be making visits on his behalf.” The "Metanoia Ministry was a ministry of the Windsor Village United Methodist Church until he was called on it by some gay activists then it "mysteriously" disappeared from the website and the spiritual leader said that there were many ministries in his church and he was "not aware of all of them? 

ed. note This minister came from the business world before he was called and I would call this poor business practice at the least. Or, well breaking one of the commandments? But I'm not casting stones, well maybe I am ;-) I think Obama should vet his ministers a little better before he signs them to speak for him.

Friday, June 27, 2008

Finally Friday Five on Summer Reading


Songbird, a former children's librarian, has posted this wordy-get it-Friday Five:

"This week, then, a Summer Reading Friday Five."

1) Do you think of summer as a particularly good season for reading? Why or why not?
I think every season is a good season for reading. I'm rarely without a book in my hand and for years after I moved to NY, did not even have a television. I was a snob, "Oh, no..I read!" I even considered a vocation as a Librarian.

2) Have you ever fallen asleep reading on the beach?
Never!

3) Can you recall a favorite childhood book read in the summertime?
I never knew that that's what they were and my particular library, the Girard, Ohio Free Library, where I later worked as a page, did not feel it important to alphabetize the children's books at that time-but did later when I worked there. made them hard to find. They were the Nancy Drew books. I only knew them the mystery books by McGowan and I really wanted to live IN the books.

4) Do you have a favorite genre for light or relaxing reading?
I know it doesn't sound relaxed, but I like mystery's, not the cozy or cute ones, but the hard boiled ones, with serial killers. With authors like Jeffrey Deaver and John Sanford and Sue Grafton and Sarah Paretsky and Kathy Reichs-much better that the TV show based on her books.

5) What is the next book on your reading list?
Well, I'm currently really enjoying "Here If You Need Me" by Kate Braestrup. I've been reading a lot of thoughtful books by women writing about spirituality as I've been discerning my faith.

I loved this FF and I really love reading.

Friday Five

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Garden Party



Last Night was the annual Garden Party, fund raiser for the GLBT Center of NYC. This years theme was food and entertainment. There were 35 restaurants represented with little tents serving a small course. I met April Bloomfield of the Spotted Pig (one of the judges of Top Chef) and Lisa one of the top three finalists of Top Chef, looking fabulous in her new short haircut. The best restaurants in NYC were represented. The MC was Kate Clinton, and Ruth Reichl former reviewer for the New the New York Times and presently the editor of Gourmet Magazine spoke. The Lavender Light Gospel Choir sang. The site was a pier on the Hudson. The weather stayed clear despite the threat of rain and even the high humidity lifted. The sunset on the river was beautiful

Monday, June 23, 2008

Manchester, who are you


I'm having a frequent visitor from Manchester England England. Across the Atlantic sea. And I'm a genius genius. I believe in God...
So who are you? You must be one of the RevGals? Or are you someone else?
Well, If you want to chat in person, there's this thing. It claims to be a tunnel but we know better. It uses, well, I'll let the article explain it:

"It was possibly the most laborious and least informative interview ever conducted.
It took about five minutes, yielded a one-word answer, and gave little real flavour of the subject.
Still - it was conducted using two whiteboards, two marker pens, and it was done over a distance of 3,471 miles (5,585 km).
How? Well there are two answers to that.
If you believe artist and inventor Paul St George then his "Telectroscope" connects New York and London via a (very) long tunnel running through the earth's crust, with the images bouncing back and forth using mirrors.
The other explanation is that it is all done by optical fibres - take your pick.
One end of the "tunnel" emerges next to Tower Bridge on the banks of the Thames in London - the other is next to Brooklyn Bridge on the banks of New York's East River.
It looks like something HG Wells might have imagined.
Each end has a giant telescope-like construction which appears to punch its way out of the earth.
There are dials, and levers, and thermometer gauges on the side of the 20m long brass and wood construction.
Peer into it and you can see people on the other side of the Atlantic.
Wave at them, they wave back at you.
Write on the whiteboard, and ask a question, and they will write back."

So, want to try? It would have to be early, I mean early, est time in the morning because in NYC there are very long lines.

Sunday, June 22, 2008