tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.comments2023-10-04T08:28:05.587-05:00Processing CounselorProcessing Counselorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11606966815373763670noreply@blogger.comBlogger1597125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-82154259580907546852012-06-24T14:47:08.616-05:002012-06-24T14:47:08.616-05:00This comment has been hidden from the blog.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-8770093348968037782012-01-08T18:01:38.846-05:002012-01-08T18:01:38.846-05:00oh my. I continue to feel sad that this has develo...oh my. I continue to feel sad that this has developed in this way. I hope it gets worked out, for the better. But I know all to well that sometimes, despite doing all the "right" and "healthy" and appropriate things, it does not. enjoy the cruise, have fun, and rest!Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-31680975592501367752012-01-06T15:31:49.575-05:002012-01-06T15:31:49.575-05:00Hi,
I've been thinking about you and your situ...Hi,<br />I've been thinking about you and your situation ever since I first read this post, probably a month ago. All I can think to add is, don't take it personally. Of course it's maddening but you can't control others. I hope you are bearing up amidst the personal crap and finding joy where you can.<br />peace, Julie.PrJooliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06849166852403625550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-121912141957605492011-12-16T10:41:59.626-05:002011-12-16T10:41:59.626-05:00Yay for all of the above. The Etsy carvings were b...Yay for all of the above. The Etsy carvings were bargains and are so cute! How cool that your priest is gay. Wish my daughter could find one, but she's not looking for any minister, gay or straight.Janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08061517211101084120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-20098336416974556492011-12-16T09:50:44.319-05:002011-12-16T09:50:44.319-05:00Esty is such a great place. Nice they had an even...Esty is such a great place. Nice they had an event to attend.Elaine (aka...Purple) https://www.blogger.com/profile/09439199680556347830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-73194740907642048312011-12-11T12:55:19.770-05:002011-12-11T12:55:19.770-05:00A am new to your blog yet I see we have common nam...A am new to your blog yet I see we have common names in our blogrolls.<br /><br />I enjoyed your randomness as I grew up on Long Island and NYC, although the Great South Bay was where I did my clamming. <br /><br />I am a survivor of trauma and I'm looking forward to reading more about your journey.8thdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17139355263412766126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-2246867156330748552011-12-09T15:49:48.646-05:002011-12-09T15:49:48.646-05:00I love the story about the candy cigarettes! Next...I love the story about the candy cigarettes! Next time I am in NYC, I want to see the mural!revkjarlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03516266924883899536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-48939454501936424982011-12-09T12:20:36.393-05:002011-12-09T12:20:36.393-05:00sounds like you have a plenty full plate at work.....sounds like you have a plenty full plate at work... i hope you can find time to relax... take a ride in an old Ford again someday... bare feet hanging out the window (which of course means someone else is driving!!)Hot Cup Lutheranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00125425492709186198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-64024997280672495982011-12-09T11:40:55.302-05:002011-12-09T11:40:55.302-05:00I love your number 1. Your life has had some inter...I love your number 1. Your life has had some interesting turns and sounds full of color, literally and figuratively! Read your previous post. So sorry for the crap, the hurt, and what sounds like a lot of injustice. May a way open toward healing and resolution soon.altar egohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11564052536173244610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-73933126609134745162011-12-09T09:26:24.310-05:002011-12-09T09:26:24.310-05:00Curiious how our lives parralled but it took blogg...Curiious how our lives parralled but it took blogging for us to meet. I like that your mural still exists!Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-42206087071724786022011-12-09T08:50:24.626-05:002011-12-09T08:50:24.626-05:00Thanks, Terri. Unfortunately the option for transf...Thanks, Terri. Unfortunately the option for transfer is unlikely at best as the state has frozen jobs and I'm needed in this office. I've explored this before because I'd like to work nearer to the beach house and there's an office there. (They refused a counselor that lives near there with her small child!)<br />The thing I'm maddest about, aside from lose of a friend is not being able to rebut what I consider to be untrue accuisations.Processing Counselorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11606966815373763670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-89951149502556218522011-12-06T19:11:13.332-05:002011-12-06T19:11:13.332-05:00Oh my. You can try and stick it out, upholding int...Oh my. You can try and stick it out, upholding integrity and being gracious to a group of wounded people, yourself included. Unfortunately no one cares about the woundedness of a leader, only the " underlings" seem to care about themselves. Or, you can try and transfer out and start anew, sometimes a system beomes so wounded and self absorbed that it cannot find its way to health until there has been enough turn over...<br /><br />Refardless, prayers for you.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-35343533433774105322011-10-16T17:55:27.891-05:002011-10-16T17:55:27.891-05:00Actually, I've been there for about 5 years, b...Actually, I've been there for about 5 years, but when my friend became to be the manager (and was very rough and universally hated) well,I was closely identified with her. She's gone and I'm left to reap the vitriol.Processing Counselorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11606966815373763670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-46897616816543063392011-10-16T17:17:06.096-05:002011-10-16T17:17:06.096-05:00Goodness! So, you are new to this position but no...Goodness! So, you are new to this position but no one is willing to allow you a little time to adjust to the learning curve? You are just suppose to be perfect?Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-90453525272461107132011-09-09T15:09:30.389-05:002011-09-09T15:09:30.389-05:00Snoopy!!! Love it
Photos are greatSnoopy!!! Love it<br />Photos are great1-4 Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05688216101068437927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-44350945574079183512011-09-09T09:31:24.687-05:002011-09-09T09:31:24.687-05:00awww, Snoopy is one of your talismans? I knew I l...awww, Snoopy is one of your talismans? I knew I liked you! I also like the idea of files "just passing through". Mine tend to stay on my desk too, too, too long.....revkjarlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03516266924883899536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-34667691984790769662011-09-03T10:21:17.298-05:002011-09-03T10:21:17.298-05:00Yes, I think I could learn to live without winter ...Yes, I think I could learn to live without winter if that were an option!Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07246090834648288671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-1876482590465637882011-09-03T08:18:44.516-05:002011-09-03T08:18:44.516-05:00Down under I have just started wearing jandals (ak...Down under I have just started wearing jandals (aka thongs/ flipflops etc) Guess I'm stretching the summer season at the other end :-)Mavishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10742184738139404524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-91780505684516427142011-09-02T14:02:46.680-05:002011-09-02T14:02:46.680-05:00I'm another year-round sandals person (sometim...I'm another year-round sandals person (sometimes with socks). Have a splendid cruise!Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399916226004495031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-18017738799232862832011-09-02T09:49:39.590-05:002011-09-02T09:49:39.590-05:00So glad you have the cruise to look forward to! I ...So glad you have the cruise to look forward to! I like sandals a lot, so I wear them all year round, which I could not do in NY, though you at least have seasons there.Janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08061517211101084120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-1987650606103782232011-09-02T09:23:09.141-05:002011-09-02T09:23:09.141-05:00Totally agree about the sandals, I'm almost as...Totally agree about the sandals, I'm almost ashamed of how many pair of Birkenstocks I own. I extend their season by wearing them with socks, which I'm sure PeaceBang would not approve of! Thanks for the heads-up on Salvation Army.PrJooliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06849166852403625550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-32871132786788298442011-09-02T08:00:25.691-05:002011-09-02T08:00:25.691-05:00I'm loving the January plans, and thanks for t...I'm loving the January plans, and thanks for the tip on Goodwill!<br /><br />Thanks for playing!kathrynzjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07688707657432202432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-71896359401228808232011-09-02T07:54:40.633-05:002011-09-02T07:54:40.633-05:00Ayuh, we both donate to and buy from Goodwill regu...Ayuh, we both donate to and buy from Goodwill regularly! Good play, and I hope you don't get snowed on quite so much this year.Auntie Knickershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08854138665883068803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-32802666909285775922011-09-02T07:02:16.105-05:002011-09-02T07:02:16.105-05:00Thinking of a different cruise the end of January ...Thinking of a different cruise the end of January is helping me keep my head above September. :-)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08235049965406944684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4489725417607771663.post-76493925749417200532011-08-21T12:27:59.163-05:002011-08-21T12:27:59.163-05:00Oh dear...I hope, but have my doubts, that she wil...Oh dear...I hope, but have my doubts, that she will have a moment of self awareness and apologize...Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.com